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Flash Fiction: Window Seat

This story features Ava, a cis woman (she/her) and Darcy, a non-binary person (they/she). Content note for public sex. You know that feeling when you have an itch,…

  • Post date July 24, 2020

Flash Fiction: Four Months

This story—my first time writing erotica!—was inspired by Violet Grey’s recent class on erotic flash fiction and the fabulous smut readings at the Smutathon 2020 launch party. This…

  • Post date July 3, 2020

Coming Out as Non-Binary Helped Me Reconnect With My Queerness

I feel confident and secure in my queerness. It’s just that the rest of the world doesn’t always feel the same. When I came out during my third…

  • Post date June 27, 2020

I Don’t Want You to Look at Me and See a Woman

Content note: This post discusses misgendering. It’s been a little over a week since I came out to to the world as agender. Since then, some moments have…

  • Post date June 21, 2020

Hi, I’m Agender

When I came out as queer in college, it was never a question of “if.” It was always a question of “when.” (And, as it turns out, that…

  • Post date June 14, 2020

Sexual Healing Toolkit for Survivors: Wand Vibrators

Welcome to the first installment in the Sexual Healing Toolkit for Survivors, a blog post series exploring sex toys, sexual wellness products, and other resources survivors can use as…

  • Post date January 27, 2020

The Power of Spooky Femme, Part 2: Spooky Evolution

Content note: This post explores trauma, abuse, PTSD, and dissociation. In the three years since I first wrote about my #SpookyFemme identity, a lot has changed. I fell…

  • Post date September 28, 2019

Using Sex Toys to Heal from Trauma: A Guide for Survivors

Content note: This post contains general, non-specific mentions of trauma. Sex toys can be powerful tools for survivors to use to access pleasure and explore our bodies and…

  • Post date September 28, 2019

Review: FemmeFunn Diamond Wand

As a notorious wand queen, I didn’t hesitate when FemmeFunn offered to send me the Diamond Wand for review. Instantly curious about its slender, unusual shape, I wondered…

  • Post date September 2, 2019

46 Ways to Honor the 46th Anniversary of Roe v. Wade

Tuesday marks the 46th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the landmark 1973 Supreme Court case that affirms abortion as a constitutional right. Even though abortion is legal in…

  • Post date January 21, 2019

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