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I’m a Queer Femme and I Adore My Long Nails

Two days before Christmas, something awful happened: one of my nails broke. You may be laughing, but this was no joke. I had a dilemma on my hands.…

  • Post date January 5, 2017

7 Commitments Sex Toy Companies Can Make in 2017

In 2016, I found my sex blogging niche by challenging companies and pushing for ethical, equitable, feminist business practice, so it seems only fitting to close out the…

  • Post date December 29, 2016

Pay Me or Get Out of My Inbox

This post started, as so many do, with a tweet. For once, it wasn’t a tweet from a company behaving badly. It was one of mine, ruminating on a…

  • Post date December 23, 2016

Review: We-Vibe Sync

I haven’t been reviewing many toys lately, but I couldn’t resist the We-Vibe Sync! And Vulvas ‘Round the World Rejoiced: You Can Customize This Thing! The Sync is a…

  • Post date December 13, 2016

The Power of Spooky Femme

Content warning: abuse. One week ago, I cut my hair for the first time in two and a half years. I also dyed it jet black. For my…

  • Post date November 30, 2016

Surviving the Election: Self-Care Methods that Don’t Require Access to Money

This writing originally appeared as a series of tweets, then as a Medium post. Now I’m reposting it here, on my personal blog. The tweets and Medium post received an…

  • Post date November 13, 2016

Calling Out, Creating Change: What I Do When Businesses Behave Badly

If you know me at all, you’ll know that ethical, equitable, feminist business practice within the sex toy industry is kinda my thing. Pushing for companies to adopt feminist…

  • Post date November 11, 2016

Fat People Aren’t Your Goddamn Punchline

It started, as so many things do, with a tweet. Well, a direct group message to be exact, from Andy at Ruffled Sheets to myself and a few others. This…

  • Post date October 17, 2016

Elena Ferrante, Sex Bloggers, and Men’s Surveillance and Consumption of Anonymous Women

I was making my way home from a long weekend in Philadelphia last Sunday when I heard the news about Elena Ferrante, a brilliant and engaging Italian author best…

  • Post date October 8, 2016

Review: Dorr Avond Wand

Welcome to the sixth post in the Wand Queen series! In 2015, after experimenting with lots of toys in my first few months as a reviewer, I figured…

  • Post date October 7, 2016

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