As always, I have a lot of feelings about Black Friday, worker exploitation, and capitalism, so I’m making an explicit commitment to only promoting a small number of sex toy companies and retailers that uphold ethical, equitable values. You can shop here knowing that your toys are coming from good people who treat their employees fairly.
Spectrum Boutique
Spectrum has a refreshing and unique online presence and product assortment. Trying to narrow down your wish list? Let me offer a few suggestions!
- The textured butt plugs of your dreams: b-Vibe x Zoë Ligon’s TEXTURE COLLECTION. Spectrum’s owner and all-around fantastic human Zoë Ligon designed these three textured, vibrating butt plugs with b-Vibe’s owner (and another all-around fantastic human), Alicia Sinclair. With three textures—swirl, bump, and twist—and sizes, these plugs are well-worth a look!
- A gorgeous, squishy dildo in colors that’ll remind you of springtime: Uberrime’s Supero. In the mood for a slightly larger option? Try the Bella.
- An under-$35 lipstick-shaped vibe: Blush’s Exposed Nocturnal. Comparable in power to the famed We-Vibe Tango, this bullet vibrator is rumbly, sleek, and travel-friendly. (I have two. Just in case of emergencies, you know?)
SheVibe is one of my all-time favorite sex toy retailers. They’re owned and staffed by a fabulous team of delightful, caring humans—and they’re endlessly supportive of the sex blogging community.
SheVibe has an amazing, extensive selection. Not sure where to start? Here are my tried-and-true top picks:
- My new favorite wand vibrator: The PalmPower Extreme! When my #1 favorite toy, Jimmyjane’s Iconic Wand, was recently discontinued, I knew I had to find a similar toy to recommend. I’m happy to report that the PalmPower Extreme does the trick—and does it well. A strong, rumbly, ergonomic wand for $103 (before discounts)… you really can’t go wrong!
- Two favorite dual-density dildos: Vixen Creations’ VixSkin Mustang and New York Toy Collective’s Shilo! Both of these dildos are so squishy and feel AMAZING.
- Three kinds of lube I always keep stocked on my nightstand: Good Clean Love Almost Naked, Sliquid Satin, and Sutil Luxe.
By doing your shopping through these links, you’re supporting ethical companies and retailers AND me at the same time! Because these stores are my affiliates, I get a small percentage of each sale made (at no additional cost to you). Thank you for helping make my work more sustainable!
For more Black Friday and Cyber Monday updates throughout the week, be sure to follow me on Twitter!